Mental Health and Wellbeing
At Nursery Hill Primary School, we are committed to supporting the emotional health and wellbeing of our pupils and staff.
We appreciate that everyone experiences life challenges that can make us vulnerable and at times, anyone may need additional emotional support. We all have an important role to play in promoting positive mental health.
At our school we:
Help children to understand their emotions and feelings better
Assist children to feel comfortable sharing any concerns or worries
Help children socially to form and maintain relationships
Promote self-esteem and ensure children know that their thoughts and feelings matter
Encourage children to be confident and ‘dare to be different’
Help children to develop their emotional resilience and to manage setbacks
It's never too early or too late to start thinking about your child's mental health, and how as a parent, you have a hugely important role in helping them to develop their ability to cope with life's challenges as they grow. We have provided some information to help you along the way.
Here are some simple actions and steps you can take at any age to help promote positive mental health:
With all the pressures on a modern day parent, it's all too easy to become distracted when you're with your child. Whether it's the phone ringing, the bill that needs paying, or the dinner that needs cooking, parents are often juggling many demands on their time - particularly if you have more than one child!
Try to spend time to be with your child one-to-one, when you can very deliberately commit to putting other worries to one side and you can actively listen to them and their feelings. Try paraphrasing their words - this will help you tune in to the feelings behind the words.
Enjoying a quiet activity together can make it easier to talk to your child without it turning into an interrogation - something that parents of teenagers will be all too familiar with - and can encourage your child to open up naturally. Modern life is so hectic that it's understandably difficult to make the time to sit down quietly and reflectively with your child and not be distracted by other things.
But you will all gain so much more in the long run - and benefit from taking a step back from today's busy lives and enjoy some dedicated time listening and playing with your child.
It's a good idea to make this a regular activity, and once you've committed, it's important to follow through so that your child knows they can count on you to hold this space for them.
Through play, children learn about themselves, their environment, people and the world around them. For some young children who don't always have the words to describe their emotions, it can be very useful way to understand how they're feeling and to help them express themselves.
Creative activities such as arts or crafts can be a wonderful way to bond with your child using materials you have around the house. While you are being creative together, you can encourage your child to tell their story and talk through what they're doing.
Role plays with toy figures or animals can also be a powerfully telling insight into how a child is feeling. Trained therapists and counsellors often use this technique which can reveal the factors behind negative behaviours.
If you're ever worried by anything that your child tells you or describes while they're playing, it's well worth consulting with a professional.
Children are extremely observant and aware of what is going on around them. As parents we are constant role models. It's important to think about your own behaviour and how you deal with emotions such as anger and frustration in front of your children, as this will influence how they behave and cope themselves.
Providing a stable and consistent environment, with clear boundaries, will help your child to feel secure and better able to learn about and cope with the world around them.
Most importantly, remember that it's natural for everyone to get upset or angry sometimes, and parenting can be a very stressful experience. Be kind to yourself and look after your own mental health, as this will have the most beneficial impact of all on the wellbeing of your child.
Here are some additional documents that will help support in the positive well being of your child.